Soul Mates
The
Search for the Twin Flame
and Understanding
Soul Mates
Part One
Soul
Mates
We all know that love is an
essential, if not the most essential aspect of living. Successful
love, however short or enduring, always requires it's constant
companion, Truth. To live "obviously" is to live
in truth and yet, for most of us, truth is not enough and often
suspicious since many are
adept at bending the truth to suit their personal or selfish needs and
agendas. Cautiously, if we are left
to "their influence", we would rather use our own precious attention and energy to live and explore
our own brand of love even more
than truth.
In our quest for love, we learn that love is as complex
as life itself, and at best, elusive. I have found, felt and showed
love in so many ways, and so many varying degrees than I am surprised
to realize that love, like
truth is just as elusive. Sometimes disappointed, but always hopeful, I
still search for the love, affection, companionship and body
connection and fulfillment in my mind and heart. At my age, I still
haven't given up on finding the "one" or at this point,
(anyone?). So, the horizon is hopeful and the Path to Truth and Love
is still a priority, and I really want to find some one and learn
something new as
well.
I was told by my teachers that
I came to this earth to show love rather than to find it, and I
relished in the simplicity of that adage or personal decree as well as the horror of
it. That is not to say that I do not have a Soul mate, but I must be
mature in my approach to finding love and showing love to those whom
I choose (sometime involuntarily couple with) to be in a relationship with.
Not everyone I feel comfy with is my Soul Mate nor can or should my
Soul Mate be comfy. It's not always about pleasure and
gratification, it could be more about evolving, and all change which
some folks call 'molting" could be uncomfortable. If I really
expanded the parameters of my thinking, it is quite possible that my
orneriest adversary could actually be a Soul Mate. Hmm. But there is
still yet more to consider.
I have, in the search for
Ultimate Knowledge, Wisdom and Love, discovered and devised the notion that I have a Twin flame that
follows me around the universe and often, when needed, we incarnate together and
often not. However, because I am a complex spiritual being, aware of
my "other bodies" in higher planes, I am aware, sometimes
through Guided meditations, Hypnosis, daydreaming, wish-fulfillment
and intention realizations, and even psychic readings, that I attract
and repel people for a number of reasons and visa versa, others
attract and repel me. Therefore, in the course of my life, I have many
soul mates. That means, these are beings that I have come into agreement with on a Soul level first and choose to interact
with here on earth as close as one can be in the context of that
agreement. In short we can feel, from time to time that we have many
or have had many soul mates. Yet, there is the notion that
soul mates and "perfect love" somehow go hand in hand and
Soul Mates are not always what you think in your wildest
dreams. I was not alone in believing that someday wonderful, I
would meet the person of my dreams, the one I longed for, my
soulmate. I believed from TV, movies and stories of lifelong
marriages that I too would be honored and blessed with the perfect
person to fulfill my dreams, longings and fantasies. The songs on
the radios, the novels and poets have conjured this dreamy notion
that the "one " is out there and from this romantic fantasy
we believe we are entitled to a perfect mate.
We are born from our mothers
in full bodily contact and, if we are lucky, into a whole family
unit and one day we gain self-awareness and leave the nest, to
strike out on our own hoping to be reunited with the comfort and
security of someone close, personal, secure, and safe again. To put
it more grimly than we are able to accept, this dream is just that,
a dream. Not a single person on the earth is destined or obligated
to serve you the kind of happiness and fulfillment you dream of,
even if they were capable of it, they too are looking, or quite
unnerving, perhaps not looking to fulfill someone else, let alone
themselves. In our quest for truth we become whole and sovereign and
realize that true love is a power inside us that comes from a sacred
word unspoken and than our journey is for us not to become dependant
on someone else but, in turn become so loving and so strong we
attract the person who is also as wild and juicy as we are in which
to share the fruits of the ventures that have been realized on the
way to our Godhead worship. By relishing the inner love and the
realizing the power and love we have to give, we naturally attract
the person who understands us best and in that maturity we share the
friendship and passion that we express, rather than receive the
extra they are obligated to give us. We realize one day that while
we came into the world in contact psychically with someone, that we
will pass over and die alone, and through the words and meditations
of love, that our connection to the other side will be of our own
realizations to the other side and that will bind us to the infinite
from which we sprang. We when return to the other side, our stories
will be of who we
loved rather than who loved us. Ironically, the stories our friends
will share & tell will be of you and I who learned that we came
to this planet to show love rather than find love. We understand
that we were the ones who knew how and had the where-with-all to do
so. In that we found comfort and the rewards of God. God is the only being who is expected to give
and give selflessly while we honor God by Loving others.
Part Two
YOUR TWIN FLAME
The Realm of Twin Flames,
Split-aparts and Soul Mates.
attraction chemistry and
passion
The Difference between
Love, chemistry and bonding through purpose
The Realm of Twin Flames,
Split-aparts and Soul Mates.
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